FATHIM
2004
Arch
PRASOON
2004 Arch
aaraadhyam
paranju?
There was
nothing like who told first,we both felt the same way at a time and made our
decisions.
Thanks to S.M.S..
Same
feelings evolved in both of us at the same time, so we expressed
together…
favourite
meeting place in college?
What a
Question, our famous Accacia in front of L.H,I think its same for most who had
romance in C.E.T
Accacia
visited
your favourite spots in campus of late?
We had made
plans to visit the campus this vacation, but "onuum nadannilla', maybe next
year
No didn’t
get a chance…but wud love to…
list 5
things that remind you of those romantic times...
Acaccia,lords restaurant,Architecture Dept,
Zo NASA,Dhwani
Accacia,
Lords, All india tour, Zonasa,
home journey
best
cherished gift (from those days) ?
A
Kiss..
yes..love
again..
any
naadageeya muhurthangal leading upto the marriage?
There was
little objection from father in law so after completing architecture I took her
to my house ,stayed there for 4months. Then after getting N.O.C from
F-in-law,she went to U.A.E,I followed with a visit visa,got a job.Put little
masska on inlaws convinced my parents through phone,and got married from indian
embassy U.A.E.
Our
relationship being controversial, my father wanted us to take decision alone,
without their support…so for six months, no contact and support (financial) from
him…that was during our last days at college,,so after the course, stayed at
prasoons home for 4 months, then returned back to my parents in UAE in Nov
2004..He reached there in April 2005 and we got registered at Indian Embassy,Uae
in Jan 2006...My parents were the witnessess...
movie,
book, song that strikes a personal chord...
Movie
Alaipauthe (Snehidane.. Snehidane.. song from the same)
Mere
humsafar(refugee)
Snehidane
(Alaipaayuthe)
Kalyanam
viplavam aayirunno? aanegil how is parents approach currently?
both of our
parents are good friends now.
Yes..it was
a revolution….My parents are my best friends, so they were the first ones to
know about our relationship…and were very supportive….
Which one
is better? arranged or love marriage?
I feel Love
Marrage.
love
marriage, of course…
In case if
your children get involved in an affair and express intention for marriage, what
would be your reaction?
I will
support.
Same as our
parents approach…
Our story
prasoon
recollects....
A cold morning in some month of 1999
(sorry very poor memory..)
I entered the architecture dept in cet. I was
stunned to see the whole class flooded with ladies and only a very few gentlemen
like toppings on ice cream.
First thing I did entering the class was
searching the right girl for me, went on scanning the faces one by one..
Ahhh yes...found one girl (sorry I cannot reveal her name due to security
reasons J )
But what was that whisper I heard from behind ? Oh..my two
fellow classmates fighting for the same girl!!!! (later found out that one of
them was Sony Sunny George J) so I did my great sacrifice on the same day.
My search
continued, got extended outside the class. But still didn’t find any. I
searched, searched and searched.... couldn't find the right one. :-(
By
that time I made a couple of close friends , one among them was
Fathim.
She was my classmate. Since our homes on the same route(mine Kannur
and hers Calicut )we used to go home together, this made us understand each
other and our bond become more stronger.
I felt that she could understand me
better than any other.
Our friend ship went for 2 years ,with lots of
time spent together, at our favourite meeting places like the Acacia and the
Lords ,the free sms service (thanks to Airtel ) and the direct line provided by
our college for M.H and L.H (Waiting in the queue to
call L.H taught me the word 'patience' in life, importance of which I later on
realized after reaching UAE, for standing in long queues at Etisalat
and banks J). By the end of the third year we both felt that we could be
together for ever, be partners in life too. This feeling evolved in both of us
together at the same time. She discussed with her parents in UAE and we took the
big decision.
There were some problems from her other relatives which
made her difficult to stay at her house in Calicut in the absence of her
parents. So after leaving CET, I took her to my house and she stayed there for 4
months and worked there. I am very much thankful to our neighborhood, they
were so much concerned about me ,that they assumed we were already married
(which made my work more easier later on after marriage, as I didn’t have
to explain to each of them. )
Within 4 months she had already become a
part of my family, and my parents had accepted her. As she went back to her
parents in Abu Dhabi, I followed her with a job offer in uae, settled here and
we got married from Indian embassy, Abu Dhabi with my in-laws as witnesses.
And presently we work together in Sharjah and reside in Ajman (happily till
now).
NB: my story does not have any resemblances with any person living
or dead in Ras al Khaimah. If u feels that way it is purely coincidental.
:-)
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